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Gary Chapman: Päť jazykov lásky

Autor Gary Chapman je poradca v oblasti manželských vzťahov a aj táto kniha má asi skôr hľadať lásku v manželstve, v ktorom chýba. Aj tak som si ju prečítal.

Kniha je celkom tenká a priznám sa, že niektoré časti som rýchlo prešiel. Manželské krízy ma príliš nezaujímali. Možno boli poučné, ale nie pre mňa keď som o nich čítal.
Pretože autor je nepochybne kresťan, občas ma napadla myšlienka (v podstate úplne zrejmá), že si plní svoju prácu poradcu (na diaľku) aj v tom, že sa snaží držať manželstvo pohromade, aby to bolo v súlade so sviatosťou manželstva.

Teória piatich jazykov lásky je však celkom zaujímavá, len to ohraničenie na päť jazykov môže byť pre niekoho zjednodušené. Hovorí približne a zjednodušene o tom, že každý prejavuje a prijíma lásku iným spôsobom a keď sa ľudia naučia, aký je jazyk lásky toho druhého, budú šťastný až kým neumrú :-).
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